spanking 101

Ok, enough about substandard television. After our much vaunted initial training session, the formality of the whole thing fell to pieces. Those of us who survived (or weren't too grossed out about the whole thing) were simply put on shift and away we went. I had absolutely no idea what to do. I recall some guidance about spanking. A cross dressed young man called Rosie offered up his sweet round cheeks and I was taught 'spanking 101' in the lounge, after I'd bent him over and flipped his frilly dress over his back. He reported that the experience was lovely, how delightful! I was also given the basics on rope bondage and taken into a couple of Mistress S' sessions. She was very accomplished with the old rope bondage. We wrapped this guy in industrial strength cling film and hauled him onto a bondage bench where he was strapped down with leather. Then S framed his head with a neat rope cage.

What Mistress S neglected to teach us was the Mistress manner and the way to subjugate and deal with slaves verbally. She seemed to think we would just pick this up naturally. I had no idea what the hell I should say. I remember being put in the room with a slave once and just told to boss him around a bit. But, what does this actually mean? I had him light some candles and crawl about on the floor and then was at a loss. These days I waffle on for the entire session and crack jokes left right and center. Keeping tight control over all the action comes with ease. Man, I truly sucked at the beginning. I do envy new Mistresses who at least begin in a dungeon with some equipment. This particular one was lacking on this front. Although, I was rather horrified last year when I was in a rental dungeon and was introduced to a newbie Mistress who'd had about an hours' training. I suppose they didn't cover safety during the training because she was casting about, asking for advice as to what to do for her hour and a half session. I gave her a couple of ideas and then showed her how to use the suspension winch. She then said 'oh yeah, so what should I do? Attach this to a collar around his neck and winch him up?' Fuck me. I think I said, 'No, don't do that. Do other stuff, but not that.'